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& ^$ ?* a+ W$ n/ VSubject: 5 lessons of life 3 M6 i. \. W: b7 x
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# H9 n6 _# y& Z6 f1 F1 - First Important Lesson - Cleaning Lady.
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8 r; G- E( z0 y1 {* u- }During my second month of college, our professor * t/ v6 Y& J( R& s, C2 F
gave us a pop quiz. I was a conscientious student
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the last one:
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What is the first name of the woman who cleans
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Surely this was some kind of joke. I had seen the
6 ]" y. Z. R0 M5 M. j. lcleaning woman several times. She was tall,
: r: S5 c* x! kdark-haired and in her 50s, but how would I know
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' V# D( }: L. dI handed in my paper, leaving the last question " P* O, @$ W& d+ @
blank. Just before
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the last question would # m, \' c, _8 n: Q0 G8 L( R
count toward our quiz grade.
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. k) h, H' c, `% t: ~: J8 R9 o' B9 g4 BAbsolutely," said the professor. "In your careers, 2 w3 v$ U K; k4 z6 Q0 i. d
you will meet many people. All are significant.
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1 n' Q D; n+ u/ ?6 Jdeserve your attention and care, even if all you do
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1 \0 z) m& U' T' j9 tI've never forgotten that lesson. I also learned her
( Y6 n* q2 @# T4 x' ]. iname was Dorothy. 5 q2 J% n. \ Y5 S2 J
$ y M( n. F7 N" G/ i+ Y E>>>2. - Second Important Lesson - Pickup in the Rain
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( g. g3 i! v8 [>>>One night, at 11:30 p.m., an older African
3 M. R( Z4 A" g3 Z>>>American
+ p3 B+ U$ ?# @0 s" X>>>woman was standing on the side of an Alabama . n; M! H# F' N7 Q- z
>>highway
2 z" s1 D/ H$ @& z1 Y>>>trying to endure a lashing rainstorm. Her car had
m, I3 E. A: q2 _( t>>>broken down and she desperately needed a $ L9 V$ C+ x7 L3 n& e q
ride.
; o I$ m. U1 ]>>>Soaking wet, she decided to flag down the next
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: T! ]6 t; T. U- N>>>A young white man stopped to help her, generally : t6 B8 h+ R% }9 S6 N
>>>unheard of in those conflict-filled 1960's. The man
" t# T3 \, u! a5 k4 j>>>took her to safety, helped her get assistance and
: k: z2 I& j- [) ?( i: y2 ?0 d5 Q>>>put her into a taxicab.
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. Y8 i& z8 q8 _$ d! x+ G>>>She seemed to
- y# E$ j7 F, }+ o. O0 C' s>>>be in a big hurry, but wrote down his
% S9 U1 Y3 C9 J( |7 ^5 t9 h% ~>>>address and thanked him. Seven days went by 0 U2 l6 D5 O$ w% c" c
>>and a ! w, ]. V: Q1 _# r$ G6 _- V
>>>knock came on the man's door. To his surprise, a
) `7 p. Y8 M) t# M>>>giant console color TV was delivered to his home.
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>>>special note was attached.. 3 ?8 |" M6 t8 I: d
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>>>It read: ) F! ?9 s" V4 B% M4 ~& t+ i9 f9 u
>>>"Thank you so much for assisting me on the
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2 r* }- f W* F4 G>>>the other night. The rain drenched not only my ! K! e' b5 ?) q
>>>clothes, but also my
" ~( Y. E( `' f$ g+ \spirits. Then you came
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>>>Because of you, I was able to make it to my dying
6 l! l0 ?: t) m' v>>>husband's bedside just before he passed away...
2 Q9 n1 X& t8 h0 J( |>>God
" C- B3 j9 D$ v6 ^7 W8 k>>>bless you for helping me and unselfishly serving
* h: S5 G+ h- v8 \. h1 z>>>others." 6 J% d4 t) r2 C. r3 a
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' y' R- j+ b8 C5 ~! f" g>>>Sincerely,
, [# |$ o% @5 o9 W" g. W2 e, r>>>Mrs. Nat King Cole.
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3 s$ U/ h7 W; ^+ {! ]3 - Third Important Lesson - Always remember
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who serve. ) j1 @2 g# j3 N: Q; M( D
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( j2 ]9 F& h" Y3 M- @In the days when an ice cream sundae
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+ G: r$ B3 {$ d; k5 }2 A5 H6 h4 Wa 10-year-old boy entered a hotel coffee shop and ) ?9 w2 \9 V& x$ r# e
sat at a table. A waitress put a glass of water in 3 H( v6 e: G3 |! x; J- d2 j8 n: {' A( ?
front of him. ! ]$ f/ v$ K1 h6 n3 q5 j
) R7 [* h" z( {' L& d; |How much is an ice cream sundae?" he asked. ) n. v" {# h/ i6 t6 |# [4 e i
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Fifty cents," replied the
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The little boy pulled is hand out of his pocket and 6 ` g9 b$ q* Z/ M
studied the coins in it.
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( x6 F1 C8 D& k( v: B! @9 a3 r0 dWell, how much is a plain dish of ice cream?" he
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0 U" O. ?3 d7 Z0 ZBy now more people were waiting for a table and ; @9 Q0 L3 f$ s
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$ W2 S5 R' Y5 Y/ ~' F; ewaitress was growing impatient. . T: m7 y' Y) e# H o3 W
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Thirty-five cents," she brusquely replied. ( b1 C+ s Z8 k, {) l
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The little boy again counted his coins. J, H! M# T& X# @9 o6 D/ y
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"I'll have the plain ice cream," he said.
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The waitress brought the ice cream, put the bill on
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ice
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waitress
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table. There, placed neatly beside the empty dish,
8 ~/ P( t" {" y3 @$ c% d$ kwere two nickels and five pennies..
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You see, he couldn't have the 7 B6 H) J" ?" O9 P7 ?9 [9 @
sundae, because he had $ H# O3 `5 J l$ C/ y
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>>>4 - Fourth Important Lesson. - The obstacle in Our
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8 R$ K5 l9 _9 n7 S>>>In ancient times, a King had a boulder placed on a 3 _6 \1 j. C, q+ @. B. X
>>>roadway. Then he hid himself and watched to see
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>>>anyone would remove the huge rock. Some of the
) W2 T6 q2 i& i; Z6 z4 _>>>king's wealthiest merchants and courtiers came , `9 k ]: y o. v% O% f7 @
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>>>and simply walked around it. Many loudly blamed
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; l4 ^5 q. U0 Y' L$ ~>>>King for not keeping the roads clear, but none did
0 {4 b! _/ }6 I, t" ?; s: A- {>>>anything about getting the stone out of the " x0 [1 A3 t; _5 @* C
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6 T4 h% ^' P- _Then a peasant came along carrying a load of ( \. J) R0 Y* t0 }6 s1 Q0 ]9 H3 `
vegetables. Upon approaching the boulder, the
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stone to the side of the road. After much
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+ X C# ]- T6 T. q% U/ W9 zand straining, he finally succeeded. After the : _* o7 N( c) p, A. x0 k
peasant picked up his load of vegetables, he $ g5 m: o2 R0 ~0 P/ ?) j
noticed
' q9 M0 I1 |& X l/ {2 C! Xa purse lying in the road where the boulder had
9 t q% S' y. |9 N& X) E6 g4 V1 b4 obeen. The purse contained many gold coins and a
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4 {6 J8 @! y1 {% ~1 ~" Afrom the King indicating that the gold was for the
' I9 K. N, p$ U. |. jperson who removed the boulder from the 4 e" Q/ s$ Y, B- T' D
roadway.
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understand!
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Every obstacle presents an opportunity to
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3 i( N9 j4 O5 A- ^8 f" h>>>5 - Fifth Important Lesson - Giving When it $ V( x w) x# t% \
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: ~% m% A. M# X) IMany years ago, when I worked as a volunteer at ; |1 K2 L2 X0 w& C. r1 z) @: D
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hospital, I got to know a little girl named Liz who
! P% n# s( d! twas suffering from a rare &serious disease. Her
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appeared to be a blood ( n# s* a- J/ @% y9 I8 c2 k
transfusion from her 5-year old brother, who had
+ U: r( Z, ? ~- @miraculously survived the same disease and had
" }' H, r5 u1 W5 @; M8 x8 O0 N- |developed the antibodies needed to combat the
}) }- i9 P6 y; B0 j; nillness. The doctor explained the situation to her
g0 k" L8 R/ e/ E X8 Flittle brother, and asked the little boy if he would
3 k! S4 _ n! ibe willing to give his blood to his sister. E9 Q$ I! _* a2 ? `4 |5 X' z: }/ ^
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I saw him hesitate for only a moment # Y6 @4 E' M h c& J. M' }
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taking a : ^& S$ W9 k6 e5 o' v' }
deep breath and saying, "Yes I'll do it if it will 2 s, j2 e* \: J3 b/ E
save her." As the transfusion progressed, he lay 2 y) Y# L( I7 o6 u: G) w$ O0 K
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bed next to his sister and smiled, as we all did, $ j6 M0 {; ?6 C- D5 B* A
seeing the color returning to her cheek. Then his
, O4 A0 t1 F. T4 k2 @face grew pale and his smile faded. 2 A( d3 W" f3 _" s# l: y0 e
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He looked up at the doctor and asked with a . v8 w. Y1 _* f
trembling voice, "Will I start to die right away".
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' m- _; n S/ d' w- PBeing young, the little boy had misunderstood the 0 ? ~; E0 w6 P' S, V! b+ m
doctor; he thought he was going to have to give
% L9 ]+ _) V9 L& L5 y1 fhis sister all of his
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